You Are Not Too Much. You Are Becoming.
Young Women Finding Identity & Voice
You are not too loud, too soft, too much, or too little. You are becoming, and your voice matters.
Young sister, the world is going to try to give you a script before you have had time to write your own. People will tell you who to be, what to wear, who to date, what to dream, and how loud to be while you do it. I am asking you to pause long enough to ask one question. Whose voice is that, and have I agreed with it?
Your twenties and early thirties are not for performing the woman everyone expects. They are for meeting the woman God designed. That woman is not a copy of your mother, your friend group, or your favorite influencer. She is original, and originals take time to develop.
Build three things in this season. A real prayer life that is yours, not inherited. A small circle of women who tell you the truth in love. A practice of writing down what you actually think, before the world tells you what you are supposed to think.
You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to outgrow rooms. You are allowed to go quiet to hear yourself. The voice you are looking for is not lost. She is just waiting for you to make space for her.
My voice is worth developing, not performing.
From Dr. Olivia
If this conversation met you where you are, the books were written for you. Two volumes, one movement, and a sisterhood waiting on the other side.
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Hidden Pain
The wounds you carry quietly while everyone calls you strong.
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Dreams that didn't unfold the way you prayed they would.
Read the conversation →Emotional Exhaustion
When you've poured into everyone and there's nothing left for you.
Read the conversation →Your Invitation
This Is Your Invitation To Stop Hiding And Start Healing
You do not have to have all the answers. You do not have to perform strength in places where your soul needs care. This movement is here to remind you that God still sees you, healing is still possible, and your story is not over.